Has anyone ever had a doctor touch them in the "wrong way"? I have but don't wanna talk about it...

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No, I haven't, however, wasn't there a nurse in the room w/ the dr?? There has always been a nurse in the room when I was w/ a male dr. (at the hospital after having my son, at the dentist, GP and gyno, even the emergency room)With whom do you not want to talk about it? Us? Your friends, your family? A therapist?? If you are mentally healthy enough to know it had nothing to do with you, and that you are not at fault, I see no reason to have to talk about it. If for any reason you are fealing ANY form of guilt, then yes, you NEED to talk about it, because keeping inside will only compound the problem and maybe create problems for yourself later on, whether noticable or not. There is no reason to have to talk about it to family or friends. If they are pressuring you to talk about it, then they are being selfish. You need to talk about it w/ someone you feel comfortable with. Find a lisenced therapist (psychologist or psychotherapist..not simply a social worker). Most health insurance companies cover therapy (under Mental Health). Someone who can offer an objective point of view. Find a therapist w/ whom you feel comfortable with. It is OK to switch therapists if the first 1 or 2 or even 3 just aren't doing it for you. However, don't go to a therapist that tells you what you want to hear, because inside you know what is right and what isnt'. Remember, you have to go thru the pain to get to the other side. ;) Good luck and I'm glad you reported him! Pooey on him! ps---I just had a dream about this 2 nights ago.very weird that I am reading this post right now.

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Nope

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Yeah. You're not just out for juicy stores at all, eh?

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then why did you post the question?

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not me.but you should report the doctor.just think how many others you may be helping just by doing the right thing.

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ok, bad for you , I've never been molested, I've gotten ??? many times, what cheers me up, is when they throw the money at me!!hell yeah!

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Then why are you mentioning it... and to answer your question... no.

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No i have not. I hate going to the doctor's office and i'm an adult.

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I did. My doctor was a hot 30 yr old woman and when I visited her to explain that the skin around my helmet was hurting, she massaged it for me. First time I ever got intimate with a woman.

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No, but if I were you I'd get a lawyer and sue. I would NOT go to him or her again! Plus, if you don't report them, they might be doing it to other patients too! Take 'em down! They are a disgrace to their profession! Stay away from them, and don't go back, or they might try even worse next time. If this is bothering you, you can go on chatrooms online too for support. Good luck!

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If you don't want to talk about it, then don't post about it.

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um... yeah... i was 7 and this doctor at philadelphia's children hospital was checking for my pulse... somewhere... down there... so yeah. no more details...

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I'm really sorry that happened to you. That sucks. This is a person you're supposed to be able to trust. I'm glad you reported him. I think it would help though if you would talk about with someone you know, maybe even a counselor.

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Nope

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I personally Never Have Been, Nor Have I Ever Done So, to me it is an Abuse of Power, Not that I Think it Couldn't Happen, but Something Benign may Be Seen By the Patient as Malignant.

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